Bars and clubs are the most common sites where today’s generations hang out, get loose and hopefully get laid. Though dangerous because of the availability of alcohol and gangsters, it is still a place where many do meet-ups and socialize. Women of this kind of environment are loose and more open than their outside behaviour. That is why most guys flock at these establishments hopeful to find a girl, date, and maybe a little more. If you only know how, that is.
Don’t go out on bars and clubs looking like a lion waiting for his meal. Ease it up a little bit and focus on other things. Project an attitude that you are just having a good time hilling out with friends on a weekend. Greet everyone in a friendly and a not-so-arrogant manner. You wouldn’t want to stand in one corner spying on every attractive girl you could see. You might frighten these women off. Engage in small chitchats with the bartenders, the person beside you or a small group. The girl you’ve been eyeing for might spot you and be attracted to your personality. Put in mind that you’re there to have fun, chill, and enjoy.
Make Eye Contact and Smile
You cannot simply approach a woman upright most especially at bars and clubs. It’s too dangerous a place to be overly confident. You don’t know what kind of companion she has. It is best to test the waters first. Try to catch her eye and smile. If she responds, that’s the time you walk over and introduce yourself to her. Start a small talk to show her that you are just being friendly and social without having any agenda of hooking her up. Having your friend approach for you and start a conversation is a big no-no! Most women consider this tactics a flop and would make you look like an insecure coward.
Make Friends with Her Friends
A woman barely goes out in a bar alone. A girl inside a club or a bar is often accompanied with a mixed group of men and women. This is where you should start first. Initiate a small talk with his guy friend first. In this way you will know whether she is someone else’s girlfriend or not. This also avoids trouble because most of the time these guys are protective of their girl companions. The key here is to win their support. More often than not, they are willing to joke around with silly things you throw at them. Be confident but not too much that they might find you arrogant. Prove to them that you’re just there for genuine friendship. Maintain this kind of bond until you finally have a chance to talk to her one on one and get to know her just as you wished.
Always remember that girls who hang out in nightclubs and bars get approached by men constantly. So it’s much better to improvise your tactics and use unique strategies without offending her or coming out too strong. Clarify your mission. Would you want to meet a girl who you would eventually invite for dates or are you just looking for a one night stand? And when you get rejected, brush it off your shoulder and move forward to the next attractive girl.